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Jeanine’s husband serves aboard a submarine in Washington and left on deployment in early January. Generally speaking, individuals serving on submarines are able to send and receive emails while aboard their ship. However, email service is sometimes sporadic and for certain boats completely unavailable. Jeanine’s husband currently serves aboard such a ship. Her only means of communication while her husband is away is via a “familygram”; 200 characters and no responses ever sent back from the boat. Jeanine is quick to point out she rarely sends these because how do you possibly condense life down into so few characters (including your name) – all sugar coated, as no bad news is allowed.

On this particular afternoon in early April Jeanine (who had recently shaved her head in support of her friend, Anne) was busy assembling a new carseat for her middle daughter (age 3). She mentions that while it’s assembled today, it probably won’t be installed until tomorrow because with 3 little ones you float from one task to the next, depending on what is of highest priority at the moment. Task management is a little like whack-a-mole in that sense. You are always attacking the next thing but rarely does anything ever get followed through to completion, at least not on the same day.

Once the car seat is take out to her truck it waits to be properly placed, installed, and inspected. Jeanine comes back in to the house and tends to the baby (5 months) who’s just woken from a nap. The baby hasn’t been sleeping well at night, so on advice of their pediatrician, Jeanine offers her some rice cereal to fill her belly and encourage her to sleep longer at night. It does not go well and Jeanine promptly makes up a bottle of formula instead.

While settling in a moment to burp the baby post meal, Jeanine referees a board game between her eldest two children and once the game is finished all 4 head upstairs to make her son’s (age 6) bed. The kids talk about all their new bedding, which was recently purchased from Toy’s R Us while their merchandise was being liquidated. Jeanine also mentions that the Star Wars teddy bear from Build A Bear workshop was a special gift when her husband left on this deployment. She explains that she’s never been a big fan of the “daddy dolls” but building a bear was something her husband and kids could create together, making it a bit more special. She quickly follows up by saying that, although she’s not fond the daddy dolls, she’s been considering getting one for the baby as her husband left so shortly after her birth. She figures it would be a good way for her baby to at least get to know her father’s face before he comes back home.

Shortly after explaining all this the baby, who had been in tummy time position on the floor, rolls over for the very first time.

mother reads manual while assembling car seat - documentary photography of military families

child tests car seat while mother and brother look on - documentary photography of military families

mother forcefully assembles car seat - documentary photography of military families

brother and sister look bored in living room - documentary photography of military families

brother and sister tackle each other on couch - documentary photography of military families

coffee station - documentary photography of military families

boy eats candy from bag - documentary photography of military families

best things this week jar in window - documentary photography of military families

mother feeds baby rice cereal - documentary photography of military families

baby is impatient for formula - documentary photography of military families

brother and sister play board game -documentary photography of military families

mother gently scolds daughter - documentary photography of military families

brother and sister play with baby -documentary photography of military families

mom deconstructs large box - documentary photography of military families

brother and sister rough house while baby lays on floor - documentary photography of military families

brother hugs sister on couch - documentary photography of military families

mother checks phone while holding laundry - documentary photography of military families

bags of boutique coffee beans - documentary photography of military families

baby in booster chair next to sister extending blanket - documentary photography of military families

mother makes bed while children are around -documentary photography of military families

stuffed animals on boy's bed - documentary photography of military families

mother claps and celebrates baby rolling over - documentary photography of military families

mother shares moment with daughter while reading book 0 documentary photography of military families

baby asleep in swing amongst laundry - documentary photography of military families

 

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